Before the Reading
- Please do NOT provide ANY information about those you wish to connect with. Allowing your loved one to come through unprompted will provide you with a much more validating and rewarding experience. This is simply me working with spirit to bring you evidence that your loved ones soul is still alive.
- It is important to approach the reading with a relaxed, clear, and open mind. Think/ask of those in spirit you would like to hear from, however realize that none of us are in charge of who comes through except the spirits themselves.
- Please no alcohol or illegal drugs before and/or during the reading. This will protect both you and myself from allowing low/negative energies to come through.
- I will sage the space in order to lift the energy and prepare for the session.
- Be prepared with specific questions you want to ask during the reading. Keep questions focused on (1-3) specific areas you’d like me to address. You may want to have a pen and paper to write things down.
- Before the reading begins I will speak briefly about what to expect during the reading, share some background information, and clarify any questions about the reading.
During the Reading
- It is important to keep calm, be open minded, and understand that not all spirit is ready to step forward to give a message. Spirit may also allow another energy to come through to give a message, however it has been my experience that often a spirit you are not expecting usually brings through someone you had wished to hear from.
- When connecting with Spirit, there are three ways in which I receive messages. I see things, clairvoyant, hear things clairaudient, feel things clairsentient, and sometimes a combination of all three. I will communicate messages to you based on how I receive the information so patience is key.
- During the reading, it is acceptable to acknowledge/validate information and messages you are receiving with a, “yes”, “no”, or “I don’t know” however, please do not give detailed information regarding a specific person or situation as this may/will interfere with spirit connection. If you answer “yes”, or know that something is very close, you are encouraged to briefly explain further how it is true as it will help to make the connection with spirit stronger.
- Throughout the reading, it is important to stay quiet unless answering the questions or briefly explaining further how it is true. By giving long winded answers or speaking about something different may/will interfere with spirit connection.
- It is important to understand that messages you receive may not make sense in that moment, but may be clear after the reading (sometimes days, weeks, or months later). Taking notes and writing down specific questions may be necessary to help you process things that are communicated during the reading.
After the Reading
- Information may come quickly during the readings, and is sometimes difficult to process. After the reading, you may want to review your notes and listen to the session (if you have it recorded). This may help clarify questions or provide deeper understanding of the messages received. It is also nice to be able to quietly reflect on the session and to thank spirit for stepping forward to share messages.